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We await the m3838 guide to all that's right and proper with less than bated breath.
Actually it's interesting question and I'm eager to answer it.
My life philosophy is very simple: you can be anything, at any level of talent or ability, even a criminal (God forbid), but you just MUST realize what you are. If you are a poor player, it's OK, but only if you realize it. Then it becomes fine and inoffensive and you get great freedom to live YOUR life any way YOU want (with just equal amount of responsibility. If YOU decided to drive above speed limit and are caught, don't argue with Police. YOUR choice and YOUR punishment. Take it.)
I couldn't agree more, I'm a great advocate of people realising their personal limitations. As it happens I delight in remaining within mine while watching my 'superiors' making a complete hash of their jobs because they have risen to the level of their own incompetence.
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Second, I disagree with your seeming assumption that people are weaklings, and always need to be cheered up, for good and for bad. "Good Job" has become an ironic remark by Russian "Patriots" in relation to stupid, naive, weak, inept "pindoses" (that's how they calle Americans). I personally think people (and Americans particularly) are pretty hardy, stoic and designed to take abuse.
Here is where you and I differ. As it happens I don't suffer fools gladly and believe me I'd be the last person to give praise if it wasn't due. Your approach 'appears' to warn people off trying to realise their ambitions unless they have the approved degree of aptitude and skill. My opinion is more that people will get from music what they put in, simple as that.
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The only difference is the upper middle class "new Agey" Yappies in Marin County, California. But they have reasons to be, with around million dollars on saving accounts and great paying jobs. Most people in the "convinient" West are struggling from pay check to pay check and don't need fake tapping on the shoulder.
I won't even pretend to understand this statement and I'll write it off as being uniquely American!
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Yes, Russians (of all ethnicities) are generally much less optimistic on the surface, they have been taught a hard way not to expect the good things come their way. But folks in the so called "West" are the same, only they have been taught by lawyers to smile a lot. It's coming this way in Russia too.
Lawyers? don't talk to me about lawyers.
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Thirdly, I don't really see, where you found discouragement in my statement. The opposite is true, the core of it is: "Life goes on, and there is no end of climbing the ladder".
Haven't you become a little too conditioned by easy compliments?
I hope not, but we're back with the hoary old question of is the cup half empty or half full? For me the cup is always half full. I agree that there is never an end to climbing the ladder (and long may it be so because if there are no more challenges you might as well be dead).
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Now, what is right and wrong in music.
Well, everything I like is wright, and dislike - is wrong. Isn't it the utter truth?
Thanks.